OUR NEXT events
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KINKY TANTRA 2.0
23.06, 6-11PM
Tantra and Kink are both paths of awakening — of meeting the body, breath, sensation, desire, boundaries, and the aliveness of the moment. In Kinky Tantra 2, we dive deeper into this rich intersection, and offer new tantric and kinky practices to expand our capacity for presence, power, surrender, play, and connection.
Whether you joined us for the first event or are jumping in now, this workshop is designed to meet you where you’re at while inviting deeper embodiment and conscious erotic exploration.
FLINTA only
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FIND YOUR KINK (SPC WORKSHOP)
04.07, 6-7PM
As part of the Dyke Pride Party organised by Strapped, join us for our ‘Find your Kink’ workshop.
Curious about exploring kink but don’t know where to start?
Look no further.In the ‘Find your K!nk’ workshop you will get an introduction to 2 kink genres: Role Playing and Soft Domination.
ALL EVENTS
HOT TALK
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Hot Talk is a no-taboo, no-shame, participative live discussion where we dive deep into the juicy, the curious and the sometimes awkward questions about sexuality, pleasure and relationships!
Dying to ask that question but never had the chance?
From Kinks and desires to dating disasters and relationship hacks, no topic is off-limits! Questions – both prepped and spontaneous- will be tossed into our pleasure bowl and our fabulous panel of invitees (plus YOU, the audience) will dish out insights, experiences and fresh perspectives.
Expect hot, real and bold discussions celebrating all forms of pleasure, gender identities and sexual orientations.
Come curious, leave empowered - let’s get talking!
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Every couple of months
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Open to humans of all genders, sexual orientations, ethnicities, relationship dynamics…
sENSUAL SELF-TOUCH
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Feel the powerful collective experience of breaking through the shame and taboo of female pleasure. In this sensual guided full-body and genit@l self-touch workshop for all people with vulv3s, you will go on a journey of defining, exploring, and expanding your self-pleasure experience.
Whether you want to expand your practice, reconnect with your body, work through some blocks, experience a powerful sisterhood moment or anything in between, this is your place and you are all welcome.
You will be guided through a powerful journey filled with tools, practices, and techniques to incorporate to your unique pleasure toolbox. With safety, consent, and privacy at the core of this workshop, we will ensure you are as comfortable as possible - where everything is an invitation and not an obligation.
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Every 6 to 8 weeks
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For all people with vulvas
SAPPHIC LIFE DRAWING
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Immerse yourself in a night dedicated to Sappho celebrating creativity, sensuality, and womxn loving womxn* hotness. In a relaxed and friendly atmosphere, you will be guided through various drawing practices to create your unique interpretation of an artistically performed Sapphic Kamasutra. Our two performers will reinterpret the Kamasutra in a queer and artistic way, striking poses to let your creativity run wild. It will be hot, playful, sensual, and beautifully queer!
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Few times a year
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We welcome all sapphic humans: queer, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, asexual, women, intersex, non-binary and trans people.
private events & Collaborations
If you want to have your own pleasure-centred event or want to collaborate with us, please get in touch!
In the past we’ve run workshops at festivals, a sexy life-drawing for a hen-do, a centering-pleasure at work sessions to teach nervous system regulation and bringing joy at work for employees… Let your imagination run wild, it will be our pleasure to collaborate with you.
pleasure ritual
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A ritualistic space for gathering, honouring and celebrating our pleasure. In an intimate and safe space, explore your pleasure lineage as a queer sacred practice and honour your body as a temple. In each ritual, participants will be guided through a journey in writing, somatic practices, sacred practices, sharing and celebrating. Step into an unapologetic circle to celebrate your pleasure and embrace the power of the community to be witnessed in your full potential.
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Few times a year
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Check event page
KINKY TANTRA
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Join us in exploring where Tantra and Kink intersect—a space that offers a gateway to presence, connection, and the interplay of energy and sensation. Though these two practices might seem worlds apart, both emphasise presence, intentionality, and the exploration of deeper levels of pleasure, connection, and power.
In this workshop, you’ll be introduced to a BDSM initiation through the lens of Tantra. We will engage in practices that help us stay present with ourselves, our bodies, and our sensations, deepening pleasure and cultivating authentic connection with ourselves and other,. These principles will then be applied to the world of Kink, to create sensual intense experiences while learning to be present with our experience.
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Few times a year
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FLINTA only
No cis-men
SELF-PLEASURE CLUB
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Self-Pleasure Club is a community workshop to explore pleasure holistically without pressure, ask burning questions and have uncensored chats.
Each workshop explores a different theme, inviting new perspectives to help us define our needs, wants and desires. The last year has included themes such as Desires, Embodied Consent, Solo-Play, Queer Tantra, Feeling Touch, Sensual Expression.
We use different tools and practices to dive into the topic including meditation, breath work, somatic movement, self-reflection and practical exercises. We use a combination of individual, paired and group work and all workshops provide time for solo reflection and integration and for group sharing and discussion. You will be guided in defining, exploring and expanding your pleasure, leaving the space feeling empowered and inspired.
Please note that you will stay fully dressed throughout and there will be no sexual acts -
Once a month at The Bath House (Hackney Wick) and some one-offs in various venues
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Self-Pleasure Club is for anyone who is curious about defining, exploring and expanding their pleasure.
We have two types of workshops with different audiences. The audience is mentioned in the title of each event:
Workshops about female pleasure, we welcome anyone who identifies with this whether in the past or in the present. We welcome ALL women, intersex, non-binary, trans and gender non-conforming humans. We believe in the power of having a space for us to come together to share our stories, validate our experiences and rewrite our pleasure narrative.
Workshops that welcome ALL GENDERS. We recognise that male pleasure is also limited by societal taboos, beliefs and expectations. We believe that creating a shared space for people of all genders to come together can be incredibly healing. We know that this may be uncomfortable at times, but think that facilitating a greater understanding between all is vital for true, collective PLEASURE LIBERATION!
We celebrate and welcome all identities, especially those traditionally excluded from pleasure-positive spaces. LGBTQIA+, BIPOC and neurodivergent humans to the front!
“Pleasure is the point. Feeling good is not frivolous, it is freedom.”
— Adrienne Maree Brown, Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good
START YOUR OWN SELF-PLEASURE CLUB
We believe in the transformative power of pleasure and its ability to connect, empower, and liberate individuals. Self-Pleasure Club has provided a space for people of East London and beyond to come together and made a bigger impact than we could ever imagined. Our dream is to have Self-Pleasure Club all over the world, but we can’t do it solo!
So we invite you to start your own Self-Pleasure Slub community and be part of a movement that challenges societal taboos, fosters honest conversations, and creates supportive spaces for self-exploration. This isn’t just about hosting workshops—it’s about becoming a catalyst for change in your community. This is about creating a space where people can freely explore their desires, ask the questions they’ve been afraid to ask, and celebrate their sexuality without shame. By starting your own Self-Pleasure Club, you’re not just building a community—you’re building a revolution.
To help you getting up and running, we are launching a mentorship program in which you’ll get:
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Gain insights from over two years of experimentation and more than 40 successful workshops.
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Learn how to confidently lead and facilitate discussions that are engaging, inclusive, and respectful.
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Access to templates, tips, and resources to help you design and execute effective and creative workshops, SPC style.
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Receive guidance on establishing your brand, including social media strategies to grow your following and engage your audience.
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We’ll be with you every step of the way, providing continuous mentorship as you build and expand your Self-Pleasure Club.