LIVING LIFE DELICIOUSLY
Sexuality and eroticism is a core part of what makes us human yet there are still so many outdated and damaging narratives preventing us from living our best (sex) life. We all deserve to feel confident and curious to explore our bodies and erotic power. Are you ready to claim pleasure as your birthright and learn what makes you feel alive?
It would be my pleasure to work with you.
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I'm Valentine (she/they), I'm a somatic sexologist, intimacy coordinator, pleasure workshop facilitator, feminist activist, performer and artist. Through my work, I invite people to question and transcend the concepts of hetero-mono-normativity in intimacy, relationships, and sexuality.
My approach is client-led, creative, holistic, trauma-informed, inclusive (of all humans, work, sexual preferences…) and gender/sexuality affirming. I am passionate about supporting sexual liberation through a no-taboo, shame-free and pleasure-centred education. My work is anchored in intersectional feminism, sex-positivity, queer theories, nervous system work, embodied consent and creating safer spaces.
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The somatic sex coaching sessions weave in discussion and somatic practices. All sessions start with an embodiment practice to get you out of your head and into your body and in the present moment. We will take some time to approach what you are bringing to the session and understand where it comes from, how it impacts you and where you want to go. My approach is somatic and practice-based which means that you learn by doing. We will co-create a somatic practice together to help you move towards your goal. You will go home with a ‘Homeplay’ - a curation of home practices and resources to help integrate the learnings from the session.
Sessions are 100% led by you and your needs, which means you have complete agency over what we explore in session and at what pace —your body is our guide.
I work with individuals of all genders, all sexual orientations and all relationship dynamics.
Investment
1 session: £100
5 sessions pack: £400
If price is a barrier, get in touch to see how we can work together (sliding scale prices available)
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Couples sex coaching is a great opportunity to improve your communication skills, understand your sexual differences as a learning opportunity, and deepen your intimacy. Focused on pleasure, I guide you and your partner(s) to explore yourselves and each other to get you living your best (sex) lives.
The sessions are entirely led by you and your needs, which means you have complete agency over what we explore in session and at what pace. We will co-create somatic practices together to help you move towards your goal. You will go home with a ‘Homeplay’ - a curation of home practices and resources to help integrate the learnings from the session
I work with people of all genders, sexual orientations and relationship dynamics.
Investment
1 session: £150
5 sessions pack: £600
If price is a barrier, get in touch to see how we can work together (sliding scale prices available).
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Wanna have your own sex ed for you and your bestie? Ready to debunk some taboos and have a shame-free, pleasure-focused discussion on sex and pleasure?
Let’s bring a Group Sex Ed to your friend group, community or workplace.
Group Sex Ed is a playful and honest workshop delivered in an interactive and relaxed environment. Creating a safer and engaging environment, be prepared to learn anything you want about sex for 1.5h. This will be your chance to ask all burning questions, learn some new skills and practise them in a non-pressured environment.
Let’s throw some pillows on the floor, pop a bottle open and get your group together. Group Sex Ed is perfect for community nights, dinner parties, picnics, workplace socials. You choose the topic, venue and guests and I’ll bring the juicy learnings and skills to take your pleasure journey to the next level.
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I work on set and live performances to support all aspects of intimacy and nudity, beyond just sexual intimacy. I am passionate about responsible, authentic storytelling and strive to contribute to a more inclusive representation of intimacy. With both in front of the camera and backstage experience, I naturally serve as a mediator and facilitator attending to the unique needs of both performers and productions. My style is warm, adaptable and proactive, I work to support both the director's vision and the performers' emotional and physical well-being.
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I am a skilled and engaging facilitator and speaker, with experience of creating safer and open spaces for honest and raw conversations about sex and pleasure.
Want to book me for public speaking, panel, or workshop? Drop your info and details about your event.
I am currently based between London, UK, and Paris, FR but happy to travel if expenses are covered.
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I work as pleasure consultant to help depict intimacy and pleasure in a way that feels authentic to the project’s vision and breaks away from traditional, heteronormative portrayals. My goal is to support storytellers, creatives and business in representing a diverse range of intimate experiences, ensuring they are truthful, nuanced, and reflective of different relationships and bodies, while avoiding common stereotypes or clichés. This includes helping to depict pleasure in ways that are more inclusive and diverse.
I have worked in the past with movie director, fiction writer, event company, sex toys company…
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If you are interested in working together, book an introductory call so we can chat further.
Looking forward to hearing from you!
Introductory call
20min - Free